One of my goals this year is to be able to run the Marine Corps Marathon next October. In order to do that, one requires a serious level of fitness. A level that I pretty severely lack. While my goal may be a bit loftier than possible, I like to set this one high. I'm okay if it takes a little longer than I wanted it to, since personal health and fitness is not something to joke about.

I'll be writing more about my personal fitness goals another time, but becoming healthy and active has been important to me for a while. And especially over the past year. Because of that, I want to keep myself motivated to get and stay fit. Part of that is going to be holding myself accountable by telling other people. And you my dear readers, are often going to be those people.

Every week, I will post that day's workout, for you all to try and enjoy. I'll post it every day on my Twitter as well!

So without further ado, here is the Weekly Workout Post #1!

The Daily Workout today was:
15 Basic Squats
15 Kickback Squats
6 Tricep Dips
10 Mountain Climbers
30 Crunches

This morning also featured some yoga from Brett Larkin's Channel.
I started out with power slow flow, which was an intermediate class. I shouldn't have been so ambitious, as it proved a little difficult for me. I decided to go with Day 1 of her 18 Days of Yoga series, and skipped around through the class a bit (not good, I know!) as I was running out of time and getting a bit frustrated with myself. I ended up doing about 30 minutes of yoga this morning. I didn't want to end on a bad note, so I followed through to the meditation sequence on the end of the Day 1 video. I've never done meditation before, outside of meditative breathing techniques for anxiety or Savasana. In Brett's video, we did about 6 minutes of meditation, including 2 minutes of Kapalabathi. And it was actually really great. While I wasn't super comfortable on my towel and I was a bit impatient through it all, once I finally resigned myself to sit and actually stop for a couple of minutes, it was great. I 100% recommend Brett's videos to anyone, just make sure you pick one that fit's your workout length and skill level! I'll link the two I did below:


60 Minute Power "Slow Flow" Yoga
"A power yoga class that doesn't rush you! Perfect for midday but practice it anytime. Sweaty & serene!"

Day 1 HOPE - Strength and Surrender
"In this 35-minute class, we learn the yogic breathing that will guide us through the rest of this challenge and tone the abs and legs w/ lunges and seated core work."












Until next time,
Writing to you from M, Personally

Namaste!




Check out the next WWP here!
This past Sunday, the ever well-dressed Kiel James Patrick released his new website, KJP.com. As the curious (read: nosy) window shopper I am I just had to go take a peek. To stay true to my ways, what kind of window shopping blogger would I be if I didn't make a wishlist post for it? So after absolutely forcing myself to shop through the whole site, I've managed to narrow down my favorites here. I'll try to keep it short and sweet, but no promises!
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Gold Sailor Knot RingGold Sailor Knot Ring
While I am really not a huge fan of rings or wearing gold over silver jewelry, this ring definitely caught my eye. I love the tarnish-y look of the ring as opposed to fully shined. It looks a little more pre-loved and natural that way. I have always thought that the story behind the sailors knot itself was very sweet. In the 19th century sailors would send rope loosely tied in this know to their ladies back home, and depending on how the rope was sent back, it would say how welcome he would be when he returned home. Over time the meaning as loosened up a bit so this ring could be given between a couple or a between friends.


Pearl Point
Pearl Point
The silver partner to the Classy Girls bracelet, I love a classic bangle like this. Big enough to be worn alone, and small enough to be work with a few other bracelets, the twisted rope look is enough to bring a tiny touch of nautical to any outfit. Capped with glass pearls, this bracelet is fitting for any occasion because as Jackie says, "Pearls are always appropriate."



American RowAmerican Row
Let me just start by saying this, even though I'm a big expatriate wannabe, I do love America, love American University, and love old Glory with pretty much everything I've got. So the second I laid eyes on the American Row bracelet from the painted oar collection, I just had to have it. I swore I wouldn't buy anything just yet, but the second anything goes on sale, this will be the first thing in my cart. The fact that it's mostly silver is great since most the jewelry I have is silver. I absolutely love this bracelet!


Jacqueline

Jacqueline
I have been dying for a really pretty and simple pearl bracelet. This one is perfect because it's simple enough that you can dress it up or down with the outfit. The glass pearls are small and delicate too, not to clumsy rolling around on your wrist. And of course, the sailors knot, one of my very low-key obsessions for jewelry. I also love the Serena Fairchild necklace, if you're looking for something similar!


Rory Gilmore

Scallop Oxford Collection
Who would I be if I didn't mention the oxfords! Buttons down shirts are my absolute favorite kind of shirts, I wear them any chance I get! Class, meetings, coffee dates, or even on laundry days! Dress them up, dress them down, dress them however you want, oxfords are like oxygen for me, cant live without them! KJP brand oxfords feature the scalloped collar which really sets them apart from the others I often see, which gives a great option for personal flair when it comes to getting down to business. I love the Cape Cod Awning pattern shirt which has blue and white vertical stripes and a white collar and cuff. I cannot stand horizontal stripes which are unfortunately very common right now, so the verticals are a really welcome change. The white collar and cuff help keep the shirt from having that 'just too much' factor that a lit of striped clothing has. The one that caught my attention is the pictured Rory Gilmore pattern shirt. First of all, I love, love, love the name. It really is very Rory-esque, making it even better. I love the navy and which gingham pattern, a very flexible set of colors and pattern that works with pretty much everything and pretty much all year. The gingham is very small too, so have the lion's courage, you won't look like you're channeling your inner Dorothy with this shirt.

I really have to stop now, my card is at high risk of just accidentally falling into my hands right now. That being said, excuse me while I window shop just a teeny bit more before getting to my homework. Until next time,

Writing to you from M, Personally



P.S. This is not in the least a sponsored post, all opinions are my own and there was no compensation involved. All photos in this post are not my own.
This lazy Sunday I reveled in my current single room status. Lounging in my pajamas, with my sheets a mess,  clothes all over, looking like the definition of Sunday hot mess. Finally, around 12:30, I dragged myself out of bed, and got to work on the lazy chores.

I took my time changing my sheets, loving the new sheet cube. I totally want to give a huge shout out to Tommy Hilfiger, for having these fabulous sheets and TJ Maxx for selling them to me for half of the original price. Please excuse the Ssnapchat photos, but feel free to enjoy my new sheet aesthetic, that I 100% in love.



After taking an embarrassingly large number of pictures of my sheets (oops!), I sat down at my desk to finally get back into blogging flow after my winter break. As I started to type, still slumming it in my gross pajamas, I heard a noise that I hadn't in two months. 

The sound of someone keying into my room. All of the sudden everything went into slow motion as the door opened and she walked in and I'm sitting here with my Sunday hot mess look on point. 

The moment I had feared had arrived. 

The roommate is here.


Okay so fear is the wrong reaction. My new roommate seems like a sweet girl so far, all twenty minutes that I've known her. And in the 90 seconds she was downstairs after seeing my hot mess express look, I was able to put on real pants and adjust myself to look more put together when I met her mom and cousin who helped her move in. After three previous roommates who were less than great, I'm really excited to get to know her better. 


With that, she's just zipped off for a late lunch with her family, and I ought to clean up a bit before they get back, so I look a little less crazy! The first impression wasn't necessarily bad, but maybe I'll be able to make a bit of a better second impression!




More new on Roomie soon, but until next time, writing to you from M, Personally
Senator Bernie Sanders has fought time and time again for a raised minimum wage. In the July 2015 Minimum Wage Rally, he said "The American people need a raise! We have got to raise the minimum wage to $15 an hour..." (source).

I find it extremely fascinating that Sen. Sanders has chosen to pay his Senate interns, a measly $12 an hour. Is that a living wage for the average student or recent graduate? Especially one which is, according to his website, "responsible for their own housing (source)."

Let's do the math, Senate interns work about 15 hours per week. At $12 per hour, an intern makes about $180 per week, not including taxes, which we'll ignore for this scenario. Internships last on average 12 weeks, so that comes to $2160 for one session. Doesn't sound so bad, right?

Let's take into account housing now. Twelve week session, four weeks a month, a student would be there for about 3 months. If we give a very generous $1,500 for rent and utilities per month for an apartment in DC, and split that between two people, our student is paying $2250 for three months of rent.

Earned: $2,160
Costs: $2,250
And that doesn't include food, transport, etc.

Senator Sanders claims that the minimum wage should be a living wage. Yet here we see his own hypocrisy. Oops?



-Writing to you from M, Personally

The Christmas season is upon us, folks! And I for one am very excited. I love everything about the holiday season. From the changing leaves in early November, to apple pies and turkey-roasted bacon on Thanksgiving, to the family Christmas parties, to sleeping with a spoon under my pillow on Christmas Eve. From November 1 to January 6th, I am the happiest little snowflake there ever could be! (except for finals week in the middle of that. Significantly less happy then)

And as per the annual tradition, I made my Christmas list! And yes, I am 19 and still making Christmas lists.



1. Portable Phone Charger: I don't know if it's just me or what, but my phone battery is CONSTANTLY dying. Maybe it's because Apple hates me, but if I'm out in the city, there's a pretty good chance my phone battery is on it's last legs. A portable charger is exactly what I need, espceially on nights when I'm coming home late from work, I get nervous if I don't have my phone available to me, just in case. As much as I love the Kate Spade chargers, it's pretty hard to willingly shell out $50, when I can get this super cute Dynex charger (in pink, of course!) from Best Buy for only $8.

2. Camp Socks: AKA the best foot sweaters around. If you don't own a pair of these magical socks, you are missing out on a serious part of your life. I honestly can't find a link, but I know for a fact that they have them at Target. And probably everywhere else too 

3. Essie Polishes: I am huge on standing by favorite brands, and Essie is one of them I will always stick with. I've been happy with my polishes from them so far, and I don't plan on going back any time soon! I've been looking to add to my collection, and here's what I've narrowed it down to:
Marshmallow - just a little softer than Blanc, I like the sheerness
Dive Bar - Very different, but I LOVE the shimmer!
Borrowed & Blue - I don't have a pastel blue, and though it's not a color I use very often, it would be good to have on hand.       (pun 100% intended!)
Fiji - Always good to have a good, girly, pale pink!
Luxedo - I love dark polish, it makes me feel very elegant when I have it on. I've got a burgundy color, but I need a good plum too!
Turquoise & Caicos - Turquoise = perfection. I love wearing bright colors in the winter! It just cheers everything up really. 
Big Spender - What can I say? I like pink. And I like when I have a polish that can match my lipstick!
Mint Candy Apple - Another nice turquoise color! Also, it's nearly Tiffany blue, therefore I need it!
Ballet Slippers - Basically the Essie go-to color. And I have yet to nab one for myself!
All in One or Good to Go - I'm almost out of top coat! I'm super harsh on my nails, so I definitely need a really good quality top coat to keep them presentable. These two are my preferred top coats from Essie

4. Black Watch Tartan Blanket Scarf: Featured everywhere, the blanket scarf is a beautiful invention.And I have an admitted love affair with Black Watch Tartan. I am in love with this one from The Providence Story on Etsy, but it sold out! I love the frayed end instead of the fringe, I prefer it for blanket scarves. Time to hunt down another producer..

5. Books: Books are never not on my list to be honest. While I'm generally happy with a Barnes & Noble gift card, sometimes it's nice to get a physical book as a gift. While I could list out every book I want, that would take until next Christmas before I even scraped the surface. The best general mass of my To-Read list is from my 101 in 1001 List. I do already own some books on the list, but most I haven't gotten my hands on yet! (especially Girl on the Train, which has a new movie coming out soon, just a suggestion Mom!)

6. Hair Straightener: As a girl with wildly misbehaving hair, my straightener and I have had a long and complicated relationship. After some rough patches in middle school, my straightener and I we're on a great road together. That is until last winter, when he began to give up on me. Now with occasional little shocks and turning off at will, it's time for me to give my straightener the viking funeral he deserves, and move on to someone new. I love my BioIonic straightener, and I want to stay loyal to the brand. I'm going on 5 years with mine now! But their 1 Inch StyleIron is $120, which is pretty pricey for me. If anyone is looking to splurge on a straightener, I would 100% recommend BioIonic though. On the budget side, my go-to-salon always uses John Frieda styling irons, and I'm willing to check out the Sleek Finish Flat Iron for myself!

7. Tortioseshell OR Silver Monogrammed Pendant Necklace: I can't decide, but I'm leaning more towards the silver monogrammed necklace. Essentially the main point of preppy college style, I do indeed feel the need to monogram everything. Because if it's not monogrammed, is it really even yours?

8. Running Shoes: I love my Nikes, but now that I'm starting my marathon training, I want to pick up a second, better fitting pair more suited for longer runs. My pair now are really great general sneakers and have worked great up to this point. But for my next pair, I need something with a little more arch support and something that's eventually going to last 26.2 miles with me! I've been leaning towards the Saucony Ride 8 and the Ravenna 6. The Asics Gel Nimbus 17 was suggested to me too, and I really like this use of Nimbus in the name, though there is unfortunately no Nimbus 2000. Despite my research, I think the best option for me would be to go into Brooks and ask the people who actually know about running shoes. 

9. Silver Boyfriend Watch: My favorite Betsy Johnson watch kicked a few weeks back, so I've been in the market for another watch to replace it. As much as I loved the Betsy one, I'm looking for something a little more downplayed, something that has more outfit flexibility. I know I want silver, but I wouldn't mind a colored face with it I haven't found one I really like quite yet, but something similar to Fossil's Virginia watch would be good. 

10. Hunter Boots: I love my hard working muck boots. They're great for the barn and working outside in the rain and mud. But when it's raining and I have class, I really cant stand wearing them. They're super heavy and not exactly pretty looking. I would love to have a pair of Hunter Rain Boots in my collection for class days. Functional, but still cute, and hopefully won't make that weird whump! noise when I walk.. My only problem with the boots is that I just can't decide between Hunter Green and Navy blue..

11. Le Pliage Longchamp Tote: Perfectly bottomless and sturdy, I can fit everything under the sun in this bag, and still have room for a book, need I even say more? I've always loved the La Pliage totes, and I think I always will. As a true lover of the color, Navy is the only option for me. 

12. Duck Boots: According to the Farmer's Almanac, my spring semester is going to be very, very snowy. And as much as I love my big rain boots, they just don't cut it on winter style. I want something with a bit more of a cute factor when I'm wearing more layers that I thought I could fit under my coat. I might look a bit strange, but at least I'll have cute shoes! Of course the LL Bean Boots are my first favorites, nothing beats the original! I like the blue toe over the brown, it'll match 99% of everything I own. I also prefer the 8" over the 6", with the slush and gross all over, I'd rather have a bit more ankle coverage. There are few things worse than getting bits of snow down the top of your boots! The Sperry Saltwater Duckboot has a really nice darker leather on it and I really like the green or blue toe option. I tried on the Merona boots at Target this past weekend. While. closer to my price range, the ankle of the book was very uncomfortable to me, it really didn't have much of a shape. The jury is still out on the boots, but hopefully I'll decide on a pair soon. 

13. Riding Boots: I get a new pair of boots every year and I don't know what I do, but they never last! I wear them a lot and I think I just beat them up. Here's to hoping that these ones last. I'm super picky about the zipper on some of them, I prefer the full zip, it's just easier to put on. I've got pretty large calves thanks to both riding and running, so not all boots fit me, especially the ones with super slim calves. And I hate ones with too many little buckles on them, they always catch on my jeans when I cross my legs. As a total fangirl, I'm obliged to include the most fabulous Meranda boot from Ralph Lauren. I love the dark brown color and the fab detail on the ankle. The Steve Madden Arries boot is great too.  I love the color, and it's super simple looking. AND no buckles! The third pair I found is the Anne Klein Kahlan boot. They are super dark brown, which I'm not sure if I want or not, but I love the high front on them!

14. Trench Coat: Always the best go to for the fall and spring. It's a wardrobe staple for pretty much any style and a good trench coat can last for a while! I've always wanted a Burberry trench coat, but $1,700 is a little out of my price range, even for an investment purchase! Though I usually prefer tan or khaki colored coats, this one is super cute in brown! And of course, you can never go wrong with Ralph Lauren, and I do like the little skirt detail on the bottom too. But this Calvin Klein one is much closer to my realistic price range and its the super classic look.

15. Knit Hats: It's not even that chilly out yet and I cannot wait to start wearing hats again! When I was younger I loved trapper hat, you know the ones with ear flaps. I liked to wear them when I would read. Don't ask, I haven't the slightest idea why. But since then, my hat style has changed from ear flaps to poms. I'm in love with the cute little knits with the pom pom on top, silly as they might look. My goal is to get a good collection of them this year and maybe even try to knit one for myself too! 

16. Black Flats: While my LC blush flats are usually my go-to shoes, I need a good pain of plain black flats. I've got a suede pair with a slight heel, but I need one that I can just throw on when I'm going to do grocery shopping or going to class. 

17. Cognac Flats: A cute stylish pair! Something between heels and go-to. To be honest, I have a love for all things cognac-colored, to be honest. 

18. Blow Dryer: I have wavy and naturally rather poofy hair. Generally, blow dryers and I do not get along. After many sad attempts resulting in poof-helmets rivaling Albert Einstein, I had given up on dryers. Over the summer when I was running and showering nearly every morning, I could let my hair air dry on the way to work, and generally it would look okay. It's great now, since there's no humidity. But unfortunately that no humidity comes with a cost, its cold as all heck. And I don't really feel like walking into class with icicles in my hair. So that brings me here, to shopping for hair dryers. I know I wanted one with Diffuser and Concentrator tools, to control the airflow a bit. After shopping around I landed on two Revlon brand dryers: the Pro Stylist dryer and the Laser Brilliance Infrared dryer. I don't really have a particular preference for either, but the latter seems to have a bit more consistent reviews. Here's to hoping for fewer baseball cap mornings!

19. Gift Cards to J. Crew and LL Bean: Super self explanatory, I hate when people shop for me, because I always feel bad about returning or exchanging anything! With gift cards, it's less of a hassle for everyone really.

20. Bonus Booties: I found these guys when I was looking for the riding boots, and I fell in love! I usually don't wear shorter boots, but these are cute and hardy looking and would be good for the spring, just sturdy enough to be able to handle the little rain puddles and still cute enough for anything! They're insulated too, so they're perfect for the more chilly days, great for me to wear to work. I like the brown, but they come in black and chestnut too.






Writing all that out took MUCH longer than expected! But that's it folks, my Christmas list for this year! Until next time, Happy (early) Holidays!


-Writing to you from M, Personally










A super speedy post for today, my favorite items from the J. Crew sale! All pulled from the 50% off section, I chose pieces that I 100% need in my wardrobe, like, yesterday.

Inset Embellished Tank Top in Petal because it would look cute going to class with jeans and a cardigan or cute going to a meeting with slacks and a blazer.

Sleeveless Trench Jumpsuit in Olive Moss because lately I've been feeling the need to buy a jumpsuit. Not a clue where I would wear it, but I guess it's good to have on hand?

Reid Cone Denim Jean in Classic Rinse because plain and simple, none of my pants for me anymore! The downside to losing weight I guess. Also who doesn't love a dark wash denim?

Reid Cone Denim Jean in Resin Rinse because see above, change dark wash to SUPER dark wash.

Point Sur Hightower Straight Jean in Evansville Wash because I really want to find a pair of straight-leg jeans that fit me. This buy is more of a leap since I don't know how they would fit me. Big hips always make straight leg pants a bit risky. But I love the classic coloring and I need some pants!

Seville Metallic Espadrille Wedges in Metallic Silver because I really like silver and I really need a good pair of espadrilles for the summer!

Corsica Espadrille Wedges in Dusty Cypress because I need a pair of espadrilles that'll show off my summer-y colored DIY pedicure that I've mastered!

Relaxed Merino Wool Pullover Sweater in Heather Dove because I don't have a grey sweater and it's a great go to for fall and winter and even the spring! It's light enough to layer, and a really nice relaxed fit.

Patch-Pocket Sheath Dress in Tipped Linen because its just SUPER cute! I don't need any more dresses, but this gorgeous neutral means I can get a bright pair of shoes to wear with it! Though I can hear my mother in the back of my mind scolding me for wearing too many boring colors..

Shiny Downtown Field Puffer Jacket because I really like it in Spiced Nutmeg. I don't have a brown jacket with me this year, and this coat looks like it's just enough for the recently warm November days (what even is the weather lately anyways??).

Liza Dress in Slub Silk in Celestial Blue because just look at it! It's beautiful! The neckline and the waist are both very flattering to my shape, and even though it's sleeveless, the cobalt color is amazing for the winter. And side note, the cobalt color also looks really nice with my coloring too.

Georgie Suede Tassel Loafers in Kraft Brown because they've got tassels. That really the only reason I can think of right now.

Collection Featherweight Cashmere Long-Sleeve T-Shirt because one, I really want a nice cashmere sweater and two, I love the cut and style that this one comes in. I didn't specify a color, because I kind of want them all to be honest, but if I had to pick, it'd be the Landscape Green!

Dulci Suede Kitten Heels because I need a good pair of Kitten Heels. And also PINK! Okay technically they're neon orchid. Regardless, I LOVE the color!!

Calf Hair Crepe Loafers because I have a pair of smoking slipper-esque flats in leopard, but these are a more casual pair. So obviously, I need these too!

Favorite Shirt in Stripe in True Blue because none of my button downs fit quite right any more. I need my good 10-minute-morning go to shirt AND I need a good button down for more formal business-y outfits too.


Now that I've finished speed-shopping through J. Crew's sale, time to go beg the 'rents for some early Christmas shopping!

-Writing to you from M, Personally





After many rather disappointing dates and a couple of rough breakups, I’ve made some decisions in my life regarding boys. At the moment, I’m going to be sticking to dating myself, as I’m pretty fabulous, if I do say so myself. But from here on out, all boys have to fit within certain standards to even be considered as dateable. I have settled a few times and I’m tired of it. I won’t settle for mediocre when I know I deserve way better. So here is where I’m going to detail out the perfect guy. I don’t expect every guy to fit every standard on here. But he has to score pretty high on this list to get a date. There are a few that are a bit more important than others though.

The Mandatories:

1.       Taller Than Me: It’s a very simple one, but I just can’t date a guy who is shorter than me. It just seems weird. I’m not very tall, so it’s not too tall of an order to fill (pun very much intended). I just want to be able to wear a good pair of heels when I’m with him. I’m about 5’7, so I’m looking for someone around 5’10. I’m happy with average height. Just someone to get the cereal off the top shelf in the grocery store really.

2.      Appreciation for Cowl Neck Sweaters: Okay it sounds totally silly I know, but hear me out on this one. I love cowl neck sweaters because they’re super warm, they almost come with a built in scarf, they’re super cute, and great to layer. A guy who appreciates (and wears) cowl neck sweaters has enough style to match my low key preppy. Now the thin ice here is that he might be just too stylish for me and surpass my low key preppy-ness. But I’ll cross that bridge if and when I get there.

3.       Willingness to be First Gentleman: This one is a two-parter, so here goes:

a.       First of all, I’ve got big goals. I want to be president one day. It might not happen. But I need someone in my life who is going to encourage and support my dreams and what I want to do, regardless of where it takes me. I also need him to know that my goals are just as valid as his, and I generally won’t put set my life and future aside for his alone.

b.      Second of all, I’m not dating for the heck of it any more. I’m dating for the future. No I don’t expect to find my future husband tomorrow, but it’s time I start looking at it seriously. I want the guys I’m dating to have some husband potential. I’m graduating college in two and a half years and I’ll be 21. I want to be married or at least engaged before I’m 24. I’ve got 5 years to find my person, that doesn’t leave any time to waste with nobody’s.

So the rest of the rules on the Boyfriend List are just very important things to consider. Some are more important that others, in no specific order.

1.      Loves His Mother: The way a guy treats his mother is a reflection of how he will treat you. Simple as that.

2.       Republican: Not a mandatory thing, but it certainly would make election years a lot easier.

3.      Politically Aware: He doesn’t have to be as big into politics as I am, but I do expect him to be aware and literate of what’s going on in the political sphere.

4.      Religious: I know, its weird coming from an atheist like me, but I’d like a guy who’s a little bit religious. If he’s very religious, it would be uncomfortable for the both of us. I just think a guy raised with religion in his life usually (not always!) has a bit better morals than others.

5.      Musical: No shame here, musical guys are pretty attractive. Whether it’s an instrument or singing (preferably both?), it’s always good.

6.     Literature Nerd: I like books. A lot. And he better understand that I prefer my books to him. Not that he isn’t great and all. But books. I also want to be able to converse and discuss books and what we’re reading. Reading a book together is a whole new level of connecting and I need that.

7.      Likes Horses: He doesn’t have to love them. He just has to like them enough to accept the fact that his new part time job involves being a water boy and camera man at horse shows. Chances are, he’ll get a horse at some point too. If he’s willing to learn to ride, even just a little, it makes him perfect in my book.

8.      A Little Bit Nerdy: I don’t want him to judge me when I sit and babble on about theories for the next Avengers movie. I want to be able to talk about the next season of Sherlock and when we’re leaving for the midnight release of our favorite video game. I want to play Skyrim some nights and Mario Kart on others. That being said, there is a very thin line between being the low key nerd I am looking for, and then just taking it too far. I have to proceed with caution.

9.      Can Cook: Not a skill I have yet acquired. I don’t need gourmet chef, but preferably better at cooking than me. The only thing he has to be really good at is breakfast in bed, mainly eggs over medium with an English muffin.

10.   Good at Shoulder Massages: Now wait a minute, before you go judging me on this one, I have a legitimate reason! With two bad shoulders and a microtear in my muscles, my shoulders get super achy sometimes, especially this time of year! I just need someone who can help a little bit on that front.

11.   Fit/Athletic: I want someone who’s in shape. I don’t want someone who looks like a balloon animal because he’s so ripped. Not a fan. That being said, I’m not a fan of the Dadbod either. I like somewhere in between. Works out pretty regularly and eats generally healthy-ish, but still looks like a normal person. That being said, I wouldn’t mind someone who can keep up with me on long runs. I’m training for the 2016 Marine Corps Marathon, and I want to keep running for the foreseeable future. While he doesn’t necessarily have to be a marathon runner too, I would like a buddy for short or easy run days. Plus, someone who’s willing to massage muscle knots out and bring me post marathon ice cream is always good.

12.  Has Goals: Another pretty self-explanatory one. I want a guy who’s going somewhere in life. I don’t want someone who’s content in a mediocre job making mediocre money. I want someone who is dedicated to his life and making it better.

13.  Inner Wanderlust: I have always wanted to travel, and no one likes to travel alone. I want a travel partner, someone to see the world with.

14.   Understands Introversion: It doesn’t so much matter if he’s an introvert, and extrovert, or an ambivert. As long as he understands that sometimes I might need a few hours of quiet reading and relaxation on my own, its fine by me.

15.  Well Off: Now before you go off calling me shallow for wanting to date someone who’s well off, let me start off by saying, yes I am a little shallow. But I’m not dating this person for their money. And I’m not looking to date a Rockefeller. I would just like someone who can afford to splurge a little for nice dinners occasionally and someone who wouldn’t think too much of spontaneous trips to the movies. I’m not asking for Mr. Moneybags, just someone who’s not going to bring home the extra lettuce from my dinner (yes it really happened and yes it was really weird).

16.   College Degree: Either has to have or be working towards a Bachelor’s degree at a minimum. And in a legitimate field, not like underwater sand shifting or something uselessly obscure. I’m not asking for a Ph.D candidate, but I won’t date someone who doesn’t see the value of a good education.

17.   No Silver Spoon Syndrome: I don’t necessarily want to date someone who was raised with the silver spoon. I don’t think I could connect with someone who was raised like that, as I never had that experience in my childhood.

That's all I can think of for now, but I'm sure as I think about it I'll remember some more that I want to add. I ought to get back to my homework now, oops!

Writing to you from M, Personally