Hey y'all! Trying to get back into this whole blogging thing, and I found this bit of inspo on Pinterest and decided to try it out. I decided to swap up the first two since today is Thanksgiving. So without further ado, in no particular order here is what I am thankful for this year.

1. My Job   I was financially struggling the last few months I was down in DC, so I'm just grateful to have a job in general. But I'm very thankful that I work with people who I like, in a place close to home, that schedules around my classes and promoted me so quickly. It's not my favorite job. And I don't plan on being there forever, but I sure as hell am grateful in there here and now.

2. College Opportunity   While OCC is definitely not my first choice (or second or third), I am still furthering my academic career, I will be finishing my Associates Degree in the spring, and then another two-ish years to finish my Bachelors. I'm just thankful that I'm working towards the end goal.

3. My Dog   He's a saint. Seriously.

4. My Brain   I am a smart person. I'm not gonna act like I'm not. I'm proud of my brain and where it's gotten me in my life. I need to remember to treat it better, considering how far it's gotten me in life so far. I am so incredibly thankful for my brain.

5. The Electoral College   What's thanksgiving without getting a little political?? I'll keep it a short. When you look at the electoral map by counties, way, way more ended up red than blue. While there was a majority voting blue, more individual counties went red. Without the electoral college this country would be run by mob rule. And I am so incredibly thankful that this country is not run in such a way.

6. My Friends   I've got four amazing people in my life who all do their parts to keep my sanity somewhat in tact. Without them, I'd be slightly more insane than I already am. I'm so grateful for these friends. Without them, I don't know where I'd be. Probably a mental ward.

7. My Voice and the Courage to Express It   So many people have so much to say. And I'm one of those people. I've got a lot I want to say. And I'm working towards being able to say it. I'm working on building up that courage to be able to say it in the full extent that I want to. But I'm getting there! And I'm thankful that I've got the courage to get to where I want to be.

8. My Convictions and The Ability to Stick to Them   Very often in my life I feel as thought I've caved on so many things. Lately I've felt like I've been standing on my own and standing up for myself for what feels like the first time. And it's great. I am so thankful that I've finally found my lady balls and I'm proud of myself for it.

9. My Creativity   I always identified myself as being completely incapable of being creative, I was never the one making the ideas, I just put it into action. But lately, my brain has felt like it's been on overdrive. I've had ideas out my ears lately! I've got notebooks upon notebooks and post-it's upon post-it's of just little bits of things I've come up with to say and to write and to do and to make! I'm so grateful that I've hit my stride or at least a stride moving towards something bigger and something so much more satisfying to me!

So nine things? That's not too bad of a list for me! This post is a day later than I wanted, but hey, that turkey nap really did me in. Until next time folks

Writing to you from M, Personally
11:18 AM
Oft glamorized by Instagram and YouTube, the life of a twenty something is not as fun and is looks. It's not all college frat parties and Sunday brunches. The life of a real twenty something looks more like work, debt, and tears. Not everyone has the same journey, but in the all of 103 days since I became a twenty something, I'm starting to learn that what I've experienced is far more common than anything else. Not all of our twenty something stories are the same, but here's mine

(Did that feel kind of Law & Order-y to you too?)

My weekends consist of nights out, driving around with the windows down at midnight, and late night stops for dinner.  And by that I mean I work closing shifts and stay late to prep for the next days, drive home with the windows open to keep myself awake, and stopping at Wawa for a quick easy meal before I go to bed.

My room is a low key wreck, piles of laundry everywhere, garbage of granola bars and water bottles overflowing, piles upon piles of paper, and boxes left unpacked. The boxes are from when I moved back home after my last semester at college in DC. Filled with kitchen supplies I don't need and thousands of dollars of riding gear from my favorite and expensive sport. Cruel reminders of what my life seems to be made up of: Half Started Projects.

Some are half started because I lost interest. Some are half started because I ran out of money. And some are half started because I just ran out of damn time. Which is a lame ass reason, but you know, reality kicks in.

And to me, reality looks a lot like no days off, minimum wage, and maximum debt. My twenty something lifestyle isn't pretty. I mean, it's far from terrible, don't get me wrong. But it still kind of sucks. I have class three days a week and I work the other four.

I want to kind of dispel the myth that this adulting struggle is a) glamorous or b) funny.

Aside form the glamorous side of that all, it seems to be funny Twitter fodder and great Vine content. But the struggle to learn to adult and function in the "real world" isn't exactly funny. Like, ha-ha, yeah I get it, no one can boil water. But when you're on your own eating uncooked ramen, living in a box, over your head in debt, it's not going to be funny. I know I'm being dramatic here, but it's important to know how to do basic things like, cook breakfast and pay taxes and understand loans and not take out credit cards. And again, learning that shit is hard.

I guess I kind of want to share everything about my twenty something lifestyle, as I'm living it. I'm going to share the glamorous, funny bits, but I'm not going to hide the ugly, crappy, messy side either. I want to be straight up, hardcore, legit with you guys. Like I said in my previous post about my Reset, I started this blog to be honest and share my life and opinions with the world. And that includes the ugly side of being a twenty something. In an effort to keep this all a little more positive, I'll call it the legitimacy of my twenties. Sounds much more poetic doesn't it?

Until next time, coming to you from M, Personally


6:40 PM
I needed a reset.

I started blogging because it was a way for me to relieve stress. I enjoyed blogging and writing.

As of 10 PM Monday night, I had 35 drafted posts in various stages of completion dating back to May of 2015. After a decent breakdown and some outside encouragement, I deleted all but three of those drafts.

All of the half finished posts didn't feel like me. It felt like I was trying so hard to be the blogger that sold, that was Pinterest perfect, that matched content with all the full time mommy bloggers I see on Facebook groups.

I was writing what I felt I should be writing, not what I wanted to write. I was engulfed in find and fitting to an filling a niche, and being the perfect blogger. I had forgotten why I started blogging in the first place.

I needed a reset. So I did.

I deleted all the crappy half starts. And I'm going to write what I want. When I want. How I want. I'm going to connect with who I want. And ignore who I want. I'm going to stick with and work on podcasting, because it's what I want/ And I'll talk about what I want, when I want, and how I want. This is my corner of the internet and I will use it the way I want.

I named my blog M, Personally because I wanted to keep my posts personal, honest, and legitimate. Here's to getting back to roots.

Until next time, coming to you from M, Personally.
Really.
10:24 AM
In a list of the things I am bad at but will need as an adult, time management is numbers 1 through like, mostly everything. I'm ashamed, but I will admit it. I am capital b-a-d BAD at time management.

In high school and elementary school, I used to work better with a busier schedule. Wuth school, and work, and me being an awful blogger, my schedule is definitely busy. But I'm starting to figure out that it's not necessarily the busy part that helped me function better, but the fact that I had a regular schedule. My classes are pretty regular so that's nice, but my work schedule changes week to week. I plan homework around my job, so I have to plan blogging and attempting to start a podcast around both. Plus occasionally sleeping, something that  haven't been doing nearly enough of over the past few weeks.

I finally sat down with myself to hammer out some rules to set up a routine that I can actually stick to.


1. Set a Bedtime Full nights of sleep are 100% essential to being productive and making the most of your day. You can't be at your best when you're doing the slow blink until 2 pm. When I'm really exhausted, I can't talk, I can't think, I can barely focus my eyes! I need to make sure I have a time when I turn off the lights, the music, and especially the phone! I'm super guilty of facebooking long into the night, and it's really terrible. Get your 8 so you can concentrate! (Oh look how witty!). My goal is to be in bed by 10:30 PM, and asleep around 11. That way I have a little time to read or meditate before 100% lights out.
Tip: Wear a sleeping mask! I never used one until college, where my roommate would be up at all hours with her desk lamp on. That thing was like the freakin' sun! My mom sent me a sleeping mask and it was weird at first, but now whenever I put on my mask, 99.9% of the time, I'm out in minutes! I used the NAME OF MASK. It's a good starter one, it's not super tight on your face and it has a shape, so it doesn't sit on your eyes too much  I always take mine off in my sleep and end up laying on it. Going on three years with it and still holds it's shape!

2. Set a Shut Down Time Yes, this is different than a bedtime! Your shut down time is a set time every night where you stop working and just relax. Since I often have to work closing shifts, it's a little tougher. But on non-work nights, I would put away homework, textbooks, blog work, and editing at a certain time. I got this idea from Estee Lalonde, who puts (LINK VID) away all her work at 7 PM. I don't think 7 is realistic for me, judging by the amount of work I already have. I'm going to start with 9 and see if I can slowly push it back earlier, while still getting my work done. I do have a bit of an additional limit, since I'll have to be done before work on my late nights.
Tip: Set alarms! Have a 30, a 15, and a 5 minute warning alarm, just to remind yourself that it's coming up to your shut down time. Make sure to keep that within earshot, but out of sight! Watching the time tick away is either going to make you feel like time is dragging, or like you have extra pressure and stress.

3. Workout Let's be honest here, how many of us say we just don't have the time to workout? Don't worry I do it too! Whether its a quick stretch or an afternoon on the running trails, any workout is a good workout!
(Legally Blonde Endorphins gif)
While we aren't being convicted of murder (I hope!), working out will release endorphins, making you happier and more relaxed when you sit back down to your work. When I'm feeling extra stressed, I go for a run, no matter what the hour. Whether it's yoga or body combat, or both, it'll help you refocus your mind on the important To-Dos while helping you let go of the little what ifs. Plus, it really does help when you get frustrated, being able to just walk away for a while and not think about a paper or homework or whatever.
Tip: Schedule your workouts to hold you accountable! Paying for a gym membership or a class makes you a little bit beholden to going, if you can afford it. If you're in college, try one if their fitness classes, you'll definitely be accountable if you're getting graded on it! Scheduling a time with a friend every week to workout together is great too, no one likes to cancel on friends.

4. Stop Multitasking I am super guilty of this, especially during freshman year of college. All my friends would watch Netflix while they did homework, so I figured I would too. Two seasons of Gilmore Girls later, it was 4:30 AM and I had gotten zero homework done. Or I would try to research for a paper and do math homework at the same time. Or I would eat and do homework at the same time. I would try to do two things at once, and end up getting nothing done. The best thing I've learned regarding improving time management is do things one at a time. Dedicate your full focus to your work, and you'll be able to get it done more efficiently than if you tried to do ten things at once. Cut out distractions, put on white noise or classical music, something you won't dance to (guilty again!). I would suggest Spotify's studying playlist OR

5. Get an Agenda If you take only one thing from this post, let it be the word PLANNER is big sparkly bubble letters. Get. A. Planner. It's the best thing ever. Not just for writing down when you have to call mom, but scheduling time for specific things. You might have to try out a couple different books to find what works for you, it's definitely a learning curve. I like having one big to do list and an hourly block for my day. On the To Do list, I can write down my assignments, things I need to do at home, things I need to buy, and what ever else I want to put. I like having the hourly break downs of my day because then I can actually see when I have free time. I can block out when I have work, when I have class, when I have free time for homework, when I have blocked time to write/record/edit.

6. Reward Yourself At the end of the day, sometimes you just have to treat yourself. When you finish an assignment, or a major section of reading, or just hit a breakpoint after a good amount of work, don't be afraid to close your laptop, walk away, and just veg for a little while. Be careful though, writing one paragraph doesn't warrant a two hour Netflix break. My goal is usually to finish one assignment or one chapter of reading and then take a 10-15 minute break. Use an alarm to remind yourself and don't get started on anything long term on your break rewards! This is the time to play with your dog, toss in laundry, grab a quick, healthy (!) snack or just walk a quick lap around your house/floor/apartment to get the blood flowing again. Keeping your nose to the grindstone for 6 hours nonstop is just going to get you angry and exhausted. Let your brain relax every now and then!


So those are my five tips for improving your time management skills. I don't pretend to have mastered these skills, so I'm working on improving at the same time that you are! But after all that, I'm off to go finish up my homework, got lots to do before my shut down time tonight! In the mean time, let me know what your best tips are for improving time management! And until next time,

Coming to you from M, Personally


6:00 AM


I know it's an odd title. but stick with me! Sometimes life throws a wrench in your plans. And in 100% honesty, it effing sucks. When that happens, you have to adjust as best as you can. Unfortunately the wrench hit me kind of like this:


Usually I do my best to adjust to the situations at hand, but this week hit me like, well, a wrench to the face. The adjusting took a little while.

School was a lot different than I expected. Going from a pretty highly ranked 4 year university to a community college, I think I really underestimated my classes. They're all pretty intense. Which I should have been prepared for since, you know, I picked them. It's not so much that I'll be overwhelmed, just as long as I focus, avoid procrastinating, and manage my time as best as I can. I don't expect to be perfect, because it's just not realistic. But I'm going to try my hardest to be my best. I have some lofty goals this semester, and I'd really like to achieve them and look back at everything with more pride than regrets. After my first week, I knew that school was going to take up more of my time than I thought it would, but not an inordinate amount. Not something I couldn't still work around.

Speaking of work, and that smooth as hell transition, work is also a lot more than I was prepared for. It's not a big glamorous job. I mean I work at ShopRite. But I do work 20-25 hours each week. That's a lot of time I can't mix with other things or multitask during. When I'm at work, my job requires me to be focused. To make it sound a bit fancier, I'm a supervisor. I watch over up to 30 employees at once. Usually not by myself, but it's a lot of people to be responsible for. That requires my attention and it seriously exhausts me. I get home at the end of the day, and I am legitimately tired. Which is great, but it does limit my schedule more. I'm not going to half ass any of my projects, academic, professional or blog wise. Its not fair to my professors, my peers, my co-workers or you my dear reader! 

Aside from those two, I had another big wrench in my plans. As you might have read in LINK last week's post, I wanted to start a YouTube channel. It's been my dream for ten years and I was ready to make it happen. Unfortunately, the camera I was borrowing became quite unavailable to me. Big uh-oh. It's a little hard to make videos without, you know, a camera. I tried the ones I had at home, but the quality just wasn't up to par.

I've always been honest with you all, and I'm not changing that now. Last Friday night I was having a meltdown over it all. Losing the camera really did mess with me more than anything else.. I was so set on following my dream, and right when I was finally able to achieve it, everything fell through. I was so close, but then so, so far again.

On Sunday, I got a present in the mail. I had ordered a microphone for my videos before I lost the camera. And an idea began to form and then it hit me like, well a wrench from the sky, just slightly less painful.

With one of the best microphones for the price and a computer, I have the two basic things I need to start a podcast. And so, I decided, I will! It's a good introduction to video making, just getting used to talking, scripting, editing, and hearing my own voice on record (cringe). I have a long list of what were video ideas, but I can still use them for podcasts, now I can do everything in my PJs! Which is, like, 148% better, let's be honest.

So that's all for now! A specific post about the podcast will come soon, explaining the whole bit and with the first episode! Time to practice my pronunciation now..

Until next time, coming to you from M, Personally 
6:00 AM

It's been a while hasn't it! After making a lot of big decisions, I decided that I ought to take some time off from everything go focus for a bit and give myself a reset after everything that happened. If you weren't around then, let me fill you in on everything that's happened..

In June, I decided to transfer colleges. I had been thinking about leaving American for over a year, but I wasn't mentally ready to make the move until after my sophomore year. Being so late I didn't have many options as to where to go. After some thought, I decided that the local community college was the best option for me while I was in limbo between "regular" colleges. So I pulled the plug on American, unpacked all my boxes at home, and had a little meltdown.

Transferring was hard for me. More so mentally than anything else. It was hard for me to say that AU wasn't the best fit for me. My own pride made it very difficult for me to go from an academically great school, to a community college. I was so excited to leave my town and what was a semi toxic friend environment, that it was a huge hit to have to come back home and go to OCC for the year. Back in June, I thought I was coming back like a wounded dog, head down and proverbial tail between my legs. But after two or so months of thinking about the situation, I've really started to come to terms with it.

I had taken the summer off to keep everything lighter, focus on myself, my jobs, and my goals. And it was great. I went full force into planning everything. Usually, I get a little overboard with that, but this time it actually worked to my benefit. Like I mentioned in my Quarter Life Crisis post, I started to realize I wasn't happy with my life. Fed up with it, I decided that I was going to change it all. Over the past two and some months, I've changed my major, my goals, and my entire mentality. And my room, which I am loving, by the way. Now instead of working towards a good job and a good life that'll provide me with a decent future, I'm throwing, like, 90% of caution to the wind and diving head first into my true goals.

Back in 2006, I was ten years old. That was when YouTube began. Not only the spur to a cultural revolution, I was enamored with it. Over the years, I watched a lot of Phil Defranco, a lot of What The Buck, and a lot of iJustine. I thought YouTubers were the coolest people. They worked for themselves, they were brave enough to post on the internet, and they had fun jobs. It was the first time I had seen someone who really enjoyed their jobs and I wanted to do it. At ten I said I wanna do that, but I'm too young, too shy, too poor, and most of all, I was too chicken, just like everyone else said. I know, I was a really positive child. But I held that mentality up until this past June when I looked at my life, kind of hated it, essentially said 'Eff This' and moved on to do what I wanted. It's my life. Why was I letting myself take a nap in the passenger seat?? I jumped up, took the wheel, and decided to drive my life where I wanted it to go. Metaphorically, of course. If we're being honest, this whole epiphany thing happened at like 2 AM over a tub of ice cream while crying. We all have lows, okay?

So that's where I am now. I'm starting a YouTube channel. I'm effing terrified, but I think it's going to go well. I have a lot to learn and plenty of mistakes will be made, but it's gonna be fun, right? I'll have all, like, three of you dear readers to support me along the way, so I'll give you the skinny on the whole deal now.

My blog is going to stay like it is, a generally unfocused lifestyle blog. I've always posted what I felt I wanted to say, and that won't really change much. I'm going to try to stilt it a little more towards the college lifestyle niche, but again, I post what I like to write.

My channel though, will be focused on college and my college journey. As a transfer, I have a unique opportunity to share my journey with you all. There isn't a lot of information online about transferring, at least that I could find, and I felt like I could help fill that gap. I felt like videos would be more natural, more personal, as opposed to just words on a page. I want to be able to share my experience with others, and I want to create a space where others can share theirs too.

The one big change will be a bit of rebranding. With the new revival of the blog and new dedication to the potential future of all of this, I feel like it's time for me to take everything to the next level. In the coming weeks I will be buying my URL and instituting a new theme with a new logo. I was hoping to have everything done for the relaunch, but it just wasn't feasible for me. So hang tight, thing's might be a little funky for a while!

So, all of that being said and done, here I am, at the edge of the diving board into a pool. And for the first time in my life, I have the courage to jump in head first. Not just with the blog or the channel, but with life in general.

The first video **should** go live this Friday so be sure to follow and like all of my social media below, and don't forget to subscribe! Until next time,

Writing to you from M, Personally
9:39 AM
San Diego Comic Con is like Nerd Mecca. Once a year, geeks from all corners of the world come together to celebrate every kind of universe through cosplay, meet ups, parties, and the newest addition, PokemonGo meetups. I've always wanted to attend SDCC, but as a poor east coast nerd, it hasn't been in the cards for me. That being said, my favorite part of Comic Con every year is definitely the trailers. I generally try to avoid most sneak peeks and theorizing articles when it comes to new movies. But when it comes to trailers, I gotta watch. I watched almost all of the trailers released at SDCC, and reacted to each and every one. I included all of the trailers below with my reactions to each one. If you haven't seen them, you just have to!



 Wonder Woman
Dang Pine! Lookin’ Fine!
Diana! Yes! Love!
Sword Dress yaas
“Well That’s Neat” Hecka yah
LASSO OF TRUTH GONNA KICK SOME ASS
YES GIRL SLAY LITERALLY
SUPER HERO LANDING
And on a horse?? DAAAAMN
THE MUSIC
The logo!! Slightly reminescent of Shield logo? Maybe it’s just me with that little weird kick back on the W
“That’s Called Slavery” HAHA



Snowden
He looks like a lot Snowden, but skinnier and hotter
Hey, Spock!
Hey, Meryl!
Oooh spooky music
I hate that chick
I don’t like thinking about the NSA.. Mixed feelings on that one but it’s spooky…
(Hey NSA(wave))
Damn that cut to black
“Are you going away?” AHAHHHAHAHAHA OMG YOU HAVE NO CLUE SWEETIE
This is probably inaccurate, but it looks good


Kong: Skull Island
Really. Again.
Loki and Captain Marvel!
JOHN GOODMAN
The captions on here are fucking hilarious
Is this the nanny from Grownups?
This looks SO DUMB

Justice League
OMG JASON MOMOA IS SO GORGEOUS IM GONNA DIE
I fucking hate Ben Afflek
Buffering… my TV hates Ben Affleck
Okay restarted b/c buffering
What is it with spooky desperate piano one keys with trailers this year
And buffering again…
THERE IT GOES
Barry Allen?
OH NEW FLASH
Oh my gosh he’s adorable!
Wait who’s Tron?
Still don’t know who Tron is, but JASON MOMOA I AM IN

King Arthur: Legend of the Sword
I love Merlin
Nope. Don’t like it already.
That’s that guy! From GoT! Oh what’s his name…
DAMN than undercut!
This music is awful
THATS THE NOT IDRIS ELBA GUY
Tree chick? I LOVE hunger ga,es!
This guy looks a little like channing tatum
JUDE LAW BABE
Good music…
Guy Ritchie. I could tell from the cuts.
SEAN BEAN.
Nope not. Budget Sean Bean.
This literally looks like GoT
STANNIS THATS WHO HE IS
Petyr Baelish too??
Okay, not awful

Suicide Squad
Still effing terrified over the Stranger Things trailer that played before this. NEVER watching that.
Quality music though
Bell Reve prison #lit reference
That train thing is pretty cool.
I hate Jared Leto
Will Smith as sassy Will Smith
Margot Robbie just T&A in this movie

Fantasic Beasts
I love this mpvie so much and it’s not even out yet omg
HEY ITS THAT COLIN GUY
Redmayne you are nerfect
Was tht a hedgehog?!
WOAM WHITE DRAGON??
THAT NOTE
“I wanna be a wizard” OMG SO MUCH SAME DUDE
AHHH!!!

Doctor Strange
This looks so fucking confusing
Weird, benny with an American accent..
He’s well cast, really. He LOOKS like the comic Dr. S
That guy needs some sleep
Rachel Mc Adams?
MADS IS SO SCARY OMG
COOL CAPE THING. Sherlock would appreciate.
Seriously though, this is gonna give me some real existential crises I can already tell
“The wifi password” YES OMG

Sherlock Season 4
Oh I DID miss you
The pool again??
THATS TOTALLY IRENE
SHERLY BEARD
TOBYS THE VILLIAN
DAMN GIRL!
Demons…? With the lip..? Cumberfeelings??
NOT ENOUGH
I don't know about you, but I am real pumped for these movies! Except Kong. And not really Suicide Squad either. And kind of meh on Snowden too. But hey! Can't forget about the SDCC Guardians of the Galaxy exclusive footage (that I haven't seen yet)! They've been filming for a month, and from I know Marvel, there should be a trailer in like, a week or so.

Anyways, I'm off for now! Big stuff is in the works so be sure to check back soon! Until next time though,

 Writing to you from M, Personally

6:00 AM
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